The terror management theory is unique to human beings and says that we have a desire to live and thrive and this is shadowed only by our realization that death is inevitable. I believe Stephen Cave put it best when he said, “We each live in the shadow of a personal apocalypse.” (Cave, 2013). Cave has also found that society has created four stories that help us cope by making us in some way immortal. His four immortality stories are elixir, resurrection, soul, and legacy. We often times find one or more of these to be the plot of ancient myths and modern stories of death.
Elixir- The idea of avoiding death all together by taking some sort of elixir of life that will keep us going. In the book of Genesis, God discusses the tree of life and how man must not eat from it or they will not only hone the knowledge of God (from the eating of the apple from the tree of knowledge) but also his immortality. “Then the Lord God said, ‘Behold, the man has become like one of us in knowing good and evil. Now, lest he reach out his hand and take also of the tree of life and eat, and live forever,’” (Genesis 3:22)
Cave discusses how in modern day we no longer rely on finding the “Fountain of Youth” but rather on creating one through science. We utilize modern technology to develop hormone treatments, stem cell research, etc. that will increase our vitality, functionality, and length of time on Earth.
Resurrection- We can rise up and live again as someone or even something different, therefore not really dying but rather evolving or transitioning into a different life. Many Egyptians believed that death was simple a transition period in life and that their ka left the body at the point of death. This is why they mummified their dead and buried them with their riches, so that when their ka returned it would have a body to return to. They also believed in Osiris, the god of the afterlife, regeneration, and rebirth.
Soul- A majority of people believe that we all have a soul (except for gingers…only kidding) and that death only occurs to the body. Our soul leaves our dead body but lives on to watch over our loved ones. The ka that I referred to previously is what Egyptians believe is their soul. It lives on before they are resurrected in body.
Legacy- This isn’t a physiological part of you living on, much like what takes place in the three previous stories. This is more of the legend that you leave behind. Something you did that was so phenomenal that it will live on forever, or damn near close to it. Your legacy may be so small that it only survives by your family and friends or it may have made such a significant impact that it lives on throughout the entirety of the world, like Steve Job’s legacy of technology.
In truth, no one can really know for sure what we have to look forward to after death. Our legacy is almost the only thing we can guarantee with certainty and that is why “the only thing that matters is that you make [your life] a good story.” (Cave, 2013)
P.S. Would living in Never-Land be considered an elixir? =D